2016 Postmortem

bettyellen

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72. Provoked is no excuse at all. Where the hell do people get off with that bullshit? Sexist shit

Reply to phleshdef (Reply #29)

Mon May 16, 2016, 04:30 PM

May 2016

is STILL sexist shit no matter how the person who spews it feels. Stop making excuses for it.

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Am I the only one who likes Barbara Boxer AND believes she was in the wrong with the way she acted? [View all] phleshdef May 2016 OP

agree with you oldandhappy May 2016 #1

I'm with you NV Whino May 2016 #2

She has been on the corporate side of many important issues. This was the clearest example pdsimdars May 2016 #54

also agree Fresh_Start May 2016 #3

She was right to stand up the the bullies who were trying to shout her down as she riversedge May 2016 #4

If you'd get your head out of the sand and watch some of the videos, you'd know they were booing Fawke Em May 2016 #27

Head in the sand? A Bob did NOT say that, PLEASE tell me NO Jackie Wilson Said May 2016 #76

LOL. So the 'process' is a 'B**ch??? riversedge May 2016 #78

Why are you still peddling the lie about Nina Turner? nt vintx May 2016 #77

Yes you are. Bernie's bullies didn't deserve to be treated with any respect, if they act like that. CrowCityDem May 2016 #5

Based on other responses in this thread, no I'm not the only one. phleshdef May 2016 #8

That is my take, as well. n/t demmiblue May 2016 #6

She is a good, liberal Dem but she screwed up. LonePirate May 2016 #7

Agree, but if she let's it go, it will taint her legacy, as this was her last YUGE act! ViseGrip May 2016 #9

Yes, they knew what they had to do and they called in the jack boots. pdsimdars May 2016 #55

I liked her until this horrendous "mistake" she made. She lost me. kgnu_fan May 2016 #10

How many more will fall on their sword for Hillary? FlatBaroque May 2016 #19

This is what I have been thinking all along. pdsimdars May 2016 #56

Agree SwampG8r May 2016 #11

I don't see that she did anything wrong. YouDig May 2016 #12

women are never permitted to speak to men like that dsc May 2016 #26

Agree. I HATE that this could be what she's remembered for since she's retiring yeoman6987 May 2016 #13

This was more than a mistake. pdsimdars May 2016 #59

Fair enough yeoman6987 May 2016 #66

iows - Women are just supposed to take abuse from bullies DURHAM D May 2016 #14

No one said anything remotely close to that. Lying doesn't help this situation. phleshdef May 2016 #16

You are lying to yourself. nt DURHAM D May 2016 #20

Nope. phleshdef May 2016 #21

They were total shit. They deserved it. Starry Messenger May 2016 #15

She is too establishment to my taste, but there are things one can like about her. Betty Karlson May 2016 #17

Yeah, some people booed her and she flipped out in anger. aikoaiko May 2016 #18

Booing became bullying when it was decided to be made a specific strategy FlatBaroque May 2016 #22

wow, all that from booing. Sorry, but if one can cheer, one can boo. That's how it works. aikoaiko May 2016 #30

You might have misconstrued my meaning FlatBaroque May 2016 #36

I did misconstrue. Thank you for clarifying. aikoaiko May 2016 #43

Good tag line pdsimdars May 2016 #61

she was called a bitch dsc May 2016 #28

Yes, one person called her a bitch. There are better words to describe her behavior/rhetoric at NV aikoaiko May 2016 #32

I fully agree and I've campaigned for Boxer and voted for her many times. Bluenorthwest May 2016 #23

Really though... shanti May 2016 #69

I feel the same way. Fawke Em May 2016 #24

She's dead to me. She'll have to earn her way back into my trust. And she won't be able to pdsimdars May 2016 #52

When being called a b* and being shouted down in a party of civility, ya... No, Boxer was not wrong. seabeyond May 2016 #25

One person said the word "bitch". It was unacceptable. It also was provoked. phleshdef May 2016 #29

I was going to say, thank you for actually saying unacceptable, as I read you excuse. wow. seabeyond May 2016 #31

Its not an excuse. Its just a description of what happened. phleshdef May 2016 #33

I get how easily it is to grab the easy sexist slur to throw at a woman. I dunno.... have seen it seabeyond May 2016 #40

Provoked is no excuse at all. Where the hell do people get off with that bullshit? Sexist shit bettyellen May 2016 #72

I never said it was an excuse. phleshdef May 2016 #73

"Provoked" absolutely implies that on some level, those words were well deserved. Whether it is bettyellen May 2016 #74

They could have called her an "asshole" and I would be saying the same exact thing. phleshdef May 2016 #75

They did not. You're reacting the same to sexist shit as you are non-sexist shit. That is the point. bettyellen May 2016 #79

I'm reacting to name calling. phleshdef May 2016 #80

Nope, sexist shit like calling women "bitches" is not okay- especially in progressive spaces. bettyellen May 2016 #82

Our outrage at bullying behavior is often selective... TwilightZone May 2016 #34

Yep, I agree. n/t TDale313 May 2016 #35

Sorry, we don't do nuance around here. QC May 2016 #37

^^^ This. phleshdef May 2016 #41

Liked her a lot. The combo of what she said and what *she failed to do* have destroyed JudyM May 2016 #38

^^^^^^^^^^^ Amen! ^^^^^^^^^^^ and YES, YES, YES!!! pdsimdars May 2016 #50

Our principles matter. Character matters. When these are no longer a politician's compass they JudyM May 2016 #53

Yes, similar circumstance of showing what they really pledge allegiance to. JudyM May 2016 #86

Exactly, JudyM. Waiting For Everyman May 2016 #60

I agree with you - I am also a Sanders voter who believes that many there were acting badly, and blm May 2016 #39

What. I just read that DWS went up to Alaska and tried to mess things up. pdsimdars May 2016 #62

Then you must only read what propagandists want you to read and missed the REAL story: blm May 2016 #83

Nah, she defended the indefensible, got called out for it tularetom May 2016 #42

She was out of her element and did not handle the situation like I'd expect someone with her... phleshdef May 2016 #47

Sure you can say that. She has been on the corporate side of many important issues. pdsimdars May 2016 #63

Accusations of corporatism are starting to lose meaning because such accusations are being abused. phleshdef May 2016 #65

I just remember over the years, there would be some important issue the Dems needed to push pdsimdars May 2016 #68

She was repeating Sanders own letter about civility! joshcryer May 2016 #44

so name-calling is now being used as an excuse for voter fraud and corruption TheSarcastinator May 2016 #45

Not sure what you are getting at, I'm a Sanders supporter. phleshdef May 2016 #46

K&R vintx May 2016 #48

But she has been on the corporate side of many, many issues. pdsimdars May 2016 #49

This isn't the only time she fell on the side of corporate america. Good thing she's retiring. onecaliberal May 2016 #51

I'm sure you will get someone who passes the Purity Party test redstateblues May 2016 #57

I don't fully agree with you. NCTraveler May 2016 #58

My thoughts pmorlan1 May 2016 #64

She was booed by assholes Demsrule86 May 2016 #67

I think her goal of getting the first woman president elected clouded her train of thought. B Calm May 2016 #70

Boxer got started in political activism opposing the Vietnam War Dems to Win May 2016 #71

Barbara was my Senator for years. I am disgusted that she will go along with winning bkkyosemite May 2016 #81

Has she apologized? TSIAS May 2016 #84

I have liked Boxer and voted for her many times in the past. PufPuf23 May 2016 #85