James Boulware: Another male rage bomb goes off in Dallas

[KitSileya]

1. Someone who reacts like this to adversity,

isn't someone I feel comfortable giving custody to. I mean, all this rage, this violence didn't suddenly magically appear unexpectedly - the people around him will have had an uneasiness about how he handled things, an uneasiness that most likely contributed to their willingness to refuse him custody.

MRAs might talk about men pushed past their limits because of what has been done to them, but I firmly believe that what is done to them is done because these men don't have good coping mechanisms to begin with. That is something MRAs should start working on - making it more acceptable for men to seek out counselling and therapy, instead of blaming women for not wanting kids to stay with a man who uses violence as a reaction.