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kimbutgar

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13. I could have never told my Father he would have killed my ex.

Reply to niyad (Reply #12)

Tue Feb 13, 2018, 03:18 PM

Feb 2018

It wasn’t until many year later when I remarried my current husband that I told my Dad. He started crying that I should have told him then. My Mother and sister knew but we kept it from him. Because we knew he would have beat the guy who hurt his little girl.

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Rob Porter is my ex-husband. Heres what you should know about abuse. [View all] mcar Feb 2018 OP

I salute her too. Zoonart Feb 2018 #1

Zoonart! mcar Feb 2018 #2

((((((((((((mcar))))))))))))) Zoonart Feb 2018 #3

Sadly, in many cases where the woman doesn't leave, it's because they believe "it was my fault"! George II Feb 2018 #6

+1 kimbutgar Feb 2018 #9

(((((Zoonart)))))) so glad you are out of that horror. niyad Feb 2018 #11

(((((Niyad)))))) Zoonart Feb 2018 #15

So glad to hear that! You so deserve to be happy! SunSeeker Feb 2018 #19

That makes me so happy to hear. Blessed Be. niyad Feb 2018 #20

He also abused a former girlfriend. BigmanPigman Feb 2018 #4

K&R nt ProudProgressiveNow Feb 2018 #5

K&R Scurrilous Feb 2018 #7

When my ex husband abused me the first time I was shocked kimbutgar Feb 2018 #8

+1. Three strikes and they are out. Also, when religion enables abusers it is out on one Bernardo de La Paz Feb 2018 #10

so very glad you were able to leave--both the abuser and the abuse-enabling rcc. niyad Feb 2018 #12

I could have never told my Father he would have killed my ex. kimbutgar Feb 2018 #13

I can well understand why you did not tell him. my father had nothing but contempt for niyad Feb 2018 #14

My experience with the Catholic church coeur_de_lion Feb 2018 #16

Thank you for the post.... Upthevibe Feb 2018 #17

Thanks . . . coeur_de_lion Feb 2018 #18

Oh my gosh Dorian Gray Feb 2018 #22

Jesus Dorian Gray Feb 2018 #21