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MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
Tue Sep 18, 2018, 12:17 PM Sep 2018

Regarding Kavanaugh the sexual assaulter and a memory of mine. [View all]

We already knew that Kavanaugh was a bona fide CREEP when he sneered and turned away from the offered handshake from the father of a murdered young woman.

We've also found out that he has a history of sexual assault, but the Trump worshipping Republicans want us to look past this because Kavanaugh was 17 at the time it happened.

When I was young, my father told me that if a girl or woman ever told me to stop, than stop IMMEDIATELY. On my own, I added to that to not only stop, but to release all physical contact, also immediately.

When I was 17, a girl and I were fooling around on her bed. She was a willing participant. Being a 17 year old horn bag, I was trying to get her clothes off. She told me to stop and I stopped. She said that she didn't want to have sex, but she was enjoying the "necking." So we continued to neck and we both enjoyed it and I stopped trying to take her clothes off.

If this woman remembers me at all today, she remembers me as a gentleman who treated her with respect.

Today, as the father of a nearly 19 year old young man, I have always taught him the same thing that I was taught. I can proudly say that this, a basic respect for girls and women, are ingrained in him as a part of who he is. While I frequently want to give him a kick in the ass, I am very proud of the way he's always treated and related to his girlfriends. He knows that if he mistreats a girlfriend, he'll have my wife and I to deal with as well as her family. I'm proud to say that he is hard wired to not mistreat women. All of his former girlfriends maintain very cordial relations with him.

As a man, husband, father and respecter of women, I'm horrified and infuriated by the attitudes of Kavanaugh's apologists and defenders. Of course, I expect nothing in the way of basic decency from the excrementally horrible excuse for a human being currently in the White House, but 2020 is coming.

That's my 2 cents, and quite possibly overpriced at that.

RESIST!

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More dads like you please! nt chowder66 Sep 2018 #1
Thanks, chowder66! MarianJack Sep 2018 #6
I second that emotion. Nt raccoon Sep 2018 #7
Good on you Johnny2X2X Sep 2018 #2
The only time I, or my son, would attack a girl or woman,... MarianJack Sep 2018 #5
Hard wired - KT2000 Sep 2018 #3
Thank you, KT2000 MarianJack Sep 2018 #4
I agree completely -- More dads like you. whathehell Sep 2018 #8
Thank you, whathehell. MarianJack Sep 2018 #9
You're welcome.. whathehell Sep 2018 #17
I remember high school in late 70's and college early 80's. Lots of parties, lots of drinking Pepsidog Sep 2018 #10
A nauseating thought. MarianJack Sep 2018 #13
Thank you! colorado_ufo Sep 2018 #11
Yep! That's a beauty alright! calimary Sep 2018 #12
Take it with my best wishes! MarianJack Sep 2018 #14
I wish all men were like you NastyRiffraff Sep 2018 #15
My wife will tell you... MarianJack Sep 2018 #19
Not overpriced at all Perseus Sep 2018 #16
thank you, Perseus. MarianJack Sep 2018 #20
That simple malaise Sep 2018 #18
Thanks, malaise. MarianJack Sep 2018 #21
You ought to be commended for the way you raised your son. Absolutely. Today on tv someone Doitnow Sep 2018 #22
Let's not forget... MarianJack Sep 2018 #23
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