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Saoirse9

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47. woops sorry
Wed Sep 22, 2021, 07:12 PM
Sep 2021
Had they charged Gabby, and actually separated her from her boy friend, it would have taken about twently minutes to get her relaxed enough to tell the truth -- that, exactly as reported, he had been hitting her. It was so obvious that he had threatened her when the police were catching up to their vehicle, and she was extremely intimidated by him standing close enough to hear what he was saying. His demeanor made it clear that he was manipulating the police. So I wish I had been there at the time with the police, as anyone with experience would have been able to get him incarcerated, rather than put in a hotel for the night. Shit, they have no idea if he stayed away from her or not that night -- something I find unlikely, as abusers tend to want to control their victim in these situations.


I was on my phone and didn't see this bit. Sorry. Tiny screen.

The cops are probably kicking themselves -- forever. I couldn't live with myself if I knew I could have prevented a murder and didn't.
A Fly in the Ointment [View all] H2O Man Sep 2021 OP
So Sherman A1 Sep 2021 #1
Just getting back here. H2O Man Sep 2021 #3
K&R spanone Sep 2021 #2
Thanks! H2O Man Sep 2021 #4
For profit news-entertainment must be quite the amplifier of this tactic, if not the originator? Pobeka Sep 2021 #5
Right. H2O Man Sep 2021 #6
Kick. MontanaMama Sep 2021 #7
Thank you! H2O Man Sep 2021 #8
Very insightful..... KS Toronado Sep 2021 #9
Thanks! H2O Man Sep 2021 #10
K&R mountain grammy Sep 2021 #11
Thank you! H2O Man Sep 2021 #13
Thanks for this insightful food for thought. StarfishSaver Sep 2021 #12
Thanks! H2O Man Sep 2021 #15
Thank you H2O.. 7wo7rees Sep 2021 #14
Thanks! H2O Man Sep 2021 #16
Thank you for your insights on this MagickMuffin Sep 2021 #17
Thank you! H2O Man Sep 2021 #20
I have been giving this modern mass cognitive dissonance experience considerable thought recently grantcart Sep 2021 #18
It is always H2O Man Sep 2021 #21
Yep. Perception Management. That's all it is. calimary Sep 2021 #19
Yes. H2O Man Sep 2021 #22
I must admit Saoirse9 Sep 2021 #23
She had over 600,000 followers on instagram or whatever platform she was using questionseverything Sep 2021 #25
At the time of H2O Man Sep 2021 #27
I had read over 600,000 but 160,000 is a lot questionseverything Sep 2021 #28
I agree. H2O Man Sep 2021 #30
Currently upwards of 500 million views/searches re. her on TikTok. Decoy of Fenris Sep 2021 #35
Isn't that something? H2O Man Sep 2021 #36
I've watched some coverage H2O Man Sep 2021 #29
If only they had you to help track him Saoirse9 Sep 2021 #40
Thank you for sharing this. H2O Man Sep 2021 #41
I watched the video or part of it Saoirse9 Sep 2021 #42
I respectfully disagree. H2O Man Sep 2021 #43
I read that they were separated for the night Saoirse9 Sep 2021 #46
The police did H2O Man Sep 2021 #48
woops sorry Saoirse9 Sep 2021 #47
It's such an ugly case. H2O Man Sep 2021 #49
K&R MustLoveBeagles Sep 2021 #24
Thank you! H2O Man Sep 2021 #31
I didn't know about that breed MustLoveBeagles Sep 2021 #33
Yes! voteearlyvoteoften Sep 2021 #26
Thank you! H2O Man Sep 2021 #32
Thanks for a thoughtful post and thought provoking conversation. K&R crickets Sep 2021 #34
Thanks, crickets! H2O Man Sep 2021 #37
Another Great OP my Brother malaise Sep 2021 #38
Thank you, my Wonderful Sister! H2O Man Sep 2021 #39
Rita Cosby blogslug Sep 2021 #44
I'm sad to report, H2O Man Sep 2021 #45
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