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PoindexterOglethorpe

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15. I hear stories like this, your elderly mother and her situation, all too often.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 03:44 AM
Oct 2022

I think that in general the older generation, like your mom, are very stubborn about things like hearing aids and the need to move into independent/assisted living. I'm hoping that us Boomers, because of what we've gone through with our parents, are more realistic and willing to relocate when necessary.

I do applaud your attitude and planning. I know we are completely different people, but I will tell you that for me, no job has ever been better than not working. You need things other than work in your life. Hobbies, reading, crafts, whatever. As someone who loves to be busy and active, as you are, I would think you would have no trouble staying busy in "retirement". Honestly.

Moving in to independent or assisted living. [View all] PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 OP
I'm in the same boat Basic LA Oct 2022 #1
Good for you. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #2
Very much on point. niyad Oct 2022 #3
That's wonderful. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #4
I just looked at www.newmexico.org and found the listing ffor the niyad Oct 2022 #6
Ahhh, yes. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #12
St Lawrence County here! Karma13612 Oct 2022 #21
Good luck on all your endeavors & good advice for the rest of us MagickMuffin Oct 2022 #5
Actually, one of the things I did for them PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #9
The studios sound great! Karma13612 Oct 2022 #22
Unfortunately, if your only income is SS, PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #29
Nope, house doesn't crack Karma13612 Oct 2022 #31
I'm with you. Joinfortmill Oct 2022 #7
Is it Sweden that has that custom where people clear out their junk at a certain age Demovictory9 Oct 2022 #8
Yes, it's Sweden. A wonderful thing. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #10
Very important post! LittleGirl Oct 2022 #11
Thank you for sharing. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #13
Updating a will is just as important too LittleGirl Oct 2022 #16
We have the same issue with my wife's mother DFW Oct 2022 #14
I hear stories like this, your elderly mother and her situation, all too often. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #15
For me, not working would be my downfall DFW Oct 2022 #19
Making Music is not a pass time for me. msfiddlestix Oct 2022 #23
I take it seriously as well, don't get me wrong DFW Oct 2022 #24
I know exactly what you mean... msfiddlestix Oct 2022 #27
DFW, you really should consider slowing down LittleGirl Oct 2022 #17
I consider it, but so far, choose not to. DFW Oct 2022 #18
My father moved into a CCRC* 10 years ago, best move ever sir pball Oct 2022 #20
Excellent advice. n/t LuckyCharms Oct 2022 #25
There are two extremely popular continuing care retirement communities mnhtnbb Oct 2022 #26
Yeah a continuing care retirement community would be nice. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #30
Very valuable advice and PSA HipChick Oct 2022 #28
Most people aren't as practical or realistic as you and I. llmart Oct 2022 #32
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