In the discussion thread: Stop Telling Women How to Not Get Raped [View all]
Response to Sarah Ibarruri (Reply #61)
Fri Jan 20, 2012, 07:59 AM
redqueen (112,617 posts)
88. That is very common.
We are sent many mixed messages about sex and consent. And many more about how poor, blameless men just 'can't help themselves' so women should be very careful not to 'lead them on'.
In this very thread people are busy absolving men of responsibility. |
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