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Figarosmom

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68. Im just surprised that
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 06:54 PM
Oct 2024

Guy thought that argument was valid. Everyone should hope that if one committed fraud or rape that the law would indeed go after them. I don't think magas have the ability to resolve problems in their head. They just cannot comprehend how to problem solve w/ o being told an answer which they seem to accept w/o question as to rather its the right or wrong answer.

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shrug proud patriot Oct 2024 #1
Your wife needs to wake up k55f5r Oct 2024 #2
Totally. GQPers take advantage of the fact that most Democrats are too nice. groundloop Oct 2024 #50
Agreed. These folks spew shit cuz they can. calimary Oct 2024 #117
If you said it in a nice tone Beachnutt Oct 2024 #3
Using humor never hurts when pushing back on the obvious Ferryboat Oct 2024 #111
I'm with you on this one. I would have done the same thing. ms liberty Oct 2024 #4
My field of patience for idiots lies fallow and barren ArkansasDemocrat1 Oct 2024 #28
Quite eloquently stated! Conjuay Oct 2024 #66
Mid fifties and the tone was snarky JT45242 Oct 2024 #82
Me too. geardaddy Oct 2024 #107
Your wife was being disrespectful to you (nt) NoRethugFriends Oct 2024 #5
+100 /nt spudspud Oct 2024 #45
why do people need sermons to tell them to be decent people Skittles Oct 2024 #6
While other sermons say it PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2024 #63
I suspect your wife is worried about what these 'people' think of her. She is not supporting you. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2024 #7
All you did was state a fact. You didn't call him names or flip him off. CrispyQ Oct 2024 #8
I agree with tthis poster. What you said was okay !!!!!!!!!????? Trueblue1968 Oct 2024 #119
As they say on Reddit... regnaD kciN Oct 2024 #9
Can you translate that, please? I don't recognize NTA. nt CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2024 #10
NTA not the asshole Chellee Oct 2024 #12
Thanks! Now I know something that I didn't. nt CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2024 #16
You're welcome! Chellee Oct 2024 #17
Just to fill in some more of the background... ShazzieB Oct 2024 #55
Yep NTA IbogaProject Oct 2024 #70
Dog, I love some of those AITA stories. Collimator Oct 2024 #128
The tolerance and "nice guy" attitude your wife was showing used to be the mainstream Democratic party attitude... Think. Again. Oct 2024 #11
I agree with this 100% mountain grammy Oct 2024 #37
your larwdem Oct 2024 #13
The Time For Politesse is Over DET Oct 2024 #14
Did you punctuate your point with a swift kick to the nuts? JoseBalow Oct 2024 #15
I'd still kick him in the nuts as the final punctuation mark to your 2 cents. magicarpet Oct 2024 #24
Pray for repentance and move on brother. Junipercity Oct 2024 #18
And she shall be known as the woman who is married to a Democrat dalton99a Oct 2024 #19
Not sure if he was reachable. qwlauren35 Oct 2024 #20
I gotta side with you on this. yardwork Oct 2024 #21
If you did it civilly you are fine. badhair77 Oct 2024 #22
The lesson ForgedCrank Oct 2024 #23
Doesn't matter if you are going to change his mind or not. The right thing to do is call out the lies. Bev54 Oct 2024 #25
To any church members who, like his wife, objected to calling out the man, I believe their Jesus set the example Attilatheblond Oct 2024 #105
I bet other authoritarian dictators got to power because nice people insisted on being polite. Nt lostnfound Oct 2024 #26
That has proven true, over and over. yardwork Oct 2024 #27
Yes. This. To paraphrase... FemDemERA Oct 2024 #38
First they came..... Prof. Toru Tanaka Oct 2024 #43
I think you did just fine! Alliepoo Oct 2024 #29
You are not obligated to nod and smile Demobrat Oct 2024 #30
I'm on your side. The other person has willful ignorance Emile Oct 2024 #31
It really depends if "Dude" was trying to disengage from "Original woman" Shermann Oct 2024 #32
☝wise words☝ yonder Oct 2024 #53
+1. (who initiated this little after church 'discussion'? ... and isn't that kind of important?) -(nt)- stopdiggin Oct 2024 #116
Your wife is definitely on the wrong side of this one Picaro Oct 2024 #33
Heck, you were just agreeing with him. Phoenix61 Oct 2024 #34
Ok old gal here. I'll wade in. Congratulations! You rocked it. Joinfortmill Oct 2024 #35
Give BS the respect it deserves? czarjak Oct 2024 #36
If that were me in the same situation, I would have moved on FakeNoose Oct 2024 #39
Nothing but respect from me.. mountain grammy Oct 2024 #40
You are right. Nothing is going to change his mind. DFW Oct 2024 #41
you weren't being disrespectful as much as he was. barbtries Oct 2024 #42
I think you did what needed to be done. Trueblue Texan Oct 2024 #44
You did the right thing. StarryNite Oct 2024 #46
r/AmItheAsshole ItsjustMe Oct 2024 #47
You get my vote on this one. LoisB Oct 2024 #48
I agree with you. DownriverDem Oct 2024 #49
Your wife is making excuses for lying assholes. canuckledragger Oct 2024 #51
Bravo for speaking up. Ferrets are Cool Oct 2024 #52
I say good for you Roc2020 Oct 2024 #54
Were you my husband.... Blue Dawn Oct 2024 #56
Lying back and taking it has a proven track record of failure. dchill Oct 2024 #57
"Thou shall not bear false witness against your neighbor." Marcuse Oct 2024 #58
You were right, your wife was wrong Wiz Imp Oct 2024 #59
I'd say that picking an argument about politics soandso Oct 2024 #60
Wife is of the Contrarian religion? Aussie105 Oct 2024 #61
My first instinct was to agree with you. But then, Batshit_Bruin_CA Oct 2024 #62
I say GOOD FOR YOU! Conjuay Oct 2024 #64
Arguing is bad for your health soandso Oct 2024 #65
I'm with you Bettie Oct 2024 #67
Im just surprised that Figarosmom Oct 2024 #68
Don't ask, don't tell -- at least not during or after church services Martin Eden Oct 2024 #69
I'm not sure that's the right approach anymore. yardwork Oct 2024 #75
His remark was indeed vulgar and sexist. Martin Eden Oct 2024 #83
You're not the asshole iemanja Oct 2024 #71
Both can be true relayerbob Oct 2024 #72
Well, for me, the asshole part was piddyprints Oct 2024 #73
"The wife" always sets my teeth on edge. 3catwoman3 Oct 2024 #132
I am squarely in your corner. Well said. c-rational Oct 2024 #74
My days of biting my tongue are OVER; If they bring it up it's all fair game. flying_wahini Oct 2024 #76
Porn mentioned? Outside church? SomedayKindaLove Oct 2024 #77
If my partner said that to him drmeow Oct 2024 #78
Not Wanting To Disparage Your Wife... ProfessorGAC Oct 2024 #79
Couldn't find a GIF to express my opinion, so I'll just state it here. Different Drummer Oct 2024 #80
History lesson Playingmantis Oct 2024 #81
That guy was a fraud. Not only just a fake christian, but GoodRaisin Oct 2024 #84
It was your Christian duty to tell this guy he's an idiot. TomSlick Oct 2024 #85
stay positive and happy!! You Joyful Warrior!! Nimble_Idea Oct 2024 #86
My wife just said that your wife was right. And, she is always right. DontBelieveEastisEas Oct 2024 #87
You were out of line genxlib Oct 2024 #88
I think you were very restrained and your wife needs to downshift. augyboston Oct 2024 #89
evil wins when good people do nothing. you are a good person and did the right thing. :) nt Javaman Oct 2024 #90
Is your wife a trump voter? Zilli Oct 2024 #91
Your wife needs to wise up. BradBo Oct 2024 #92
"they could go after any of us" for rape jcgoldie Oct 2024 #93
You lost me at "the wife." MineralMan Oct 2024 #94
TY quaint Oct 2024 #98
In this world, one never knows who is armed Kaleva Oct 2024 #95
You could have said it more gently. "The wife" (your wife?) has a point. SunSeeker Oct 2024 #96
I learned long ago, Hieronymus Phact Oct 2024 #97
You were lovely StFrancis1 Oct 2024 #99
Doesn't matter hurple Oct 2024 #100
A real Christian cannot vote for Trump wiseowljedi Oct 2024 #101
No, he was being a jerk SocialDemocrat61 Oct 2024 #102
I think you should MorbidButterflyTat Oct 2024 #103
I think you could let it rest outside of the church. LakeArenal Oct 2024 #104
They will Gilbert Moore Oct 2024 #106
Very tricky situation karynnj Oct 2024 #108
The dude's wife was a substitute preacher for our preacher and not a trumper JT45242 Oct 2024 #131
Call them on their lies.. quickesst Oct 2024 #109
Trump supporters are fascist whether they embrace that or not nini Oct 2024 #110
You were 100 percent in the right AverageJoe Oct 2024 #112
I don't think you're being an asshole, but here's the thing: if you watched that 60 minutes deal where PatrickforB Oct 2024 #113
I'm with you on this one. You didn't start the argument. You just threw in a factual observation to correct the man's Martin68 Oct 2024 #114
yeah. wife is right. stopdiggin Oct 2024 #115
Never argue with a fool. Somebody watching might not be able to tell the difference. SupportSanity Oct 2024 #118
NTA Americanme Oct 2024 #120
You did great...glad I wasn't there.... MiHale Oct 2024 #121
Stand up for what is right KT2000 Oct 2024 #122
You're not the asshole. Your wife over-reacted IMO but these sorts of encounters are always stressful LymphocyteLover Oct 2024 #123
you are definitely NOT the asshole BrownsFreak Oct 2024 #124
Most of these people's brains are so addled by FOX Propaganda they have no idea what the truth is and often have no hadEnuf Oct 2024 #125
You did the right thing. Some can't handle the truth. Your wife will get over it. brush Oct 2024 #126
NTA DiverDave Oct 2024 #127
Give them a look of pity. "You can always learn the facts, but you can't fix stupid." LastLiberal in PalmSprings Oct 2024 #129
That's a tough one. Sounds like my wife. I think she doesn't want me to get shot. Evolve Dammit Oct 2024 #130
Guess you're lucky I'm not your wife. I'd have told you to punch the guy. LOL. Vinca Oct 2024 #133
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