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In reply to the discussion: Men expect sex after expensive dinner dates: study [View all]Bay Boy
(1,689 posts)The word 'expect' is what has everyone riled up here. If they had used term 'hopes for' instead that may have changed the poll results and turned down the outrage some. But are we even defining the word 'expects' right? For example "I expect sex on my birthday". Well, I do. Because I have always gotten it in the past. Does that mean that I 'demand' sex on my birthday or I'll just force my wife to have sex with me on my birthday? No, I'm just used to getting it so I expect it.
Is it possible that's what the men who were polled were thinking? Maybe when they have taken out women in the past and spent 'x' amount of money they have always ended up in bed at the end of the night. So now when asked if they buy a women an expensive dinner on a first date they reply " I expect sex".