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In reply to the discussion: Men forcing women to become pregnant against their will... [View all]leftyohiolib
(5,917 posts)i was going to school at the time and although i was ok with being a father i didnt necessarily want to be one at that time. that's why she was on the pill which was HER decision not mine she didnt want me to use a condom which was HER decision not mine. since the pill was working for both of us there was no reason to be doubling up on the b.c.. if she got pregnant fine then i would be a father i wouldn't force her to have the baby (although that's apparently what she wanted) nor would i force an abortion nor would i have left her.
but she went off the pill and didnt tell me.
i WAS ticked but what she wanted, i believe, was married and i think she thought that getting pregnant would do it and it would have if the baby had lived and im not complaining it was along time ago.