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In reply to the discussion: Men forcing women to become pregnant against their will... [View all]Butterbean
(1,014 posts)One was a married couple, the other were young 20-somethings who were dating. Both men had poked holes in the condom and thought it was funny. Both admitted to it and laughed about it in the delivery room, and their female partners laughed too. I was horrified and squicked out but kept my poker face on. This was in the last 10 years.
Conversely, when I wanted children and my husband wasn't ready, I had women coming out of the woodwork telling me to "just stop taking" my pills. I told them that I wouldn't do that, because it was lying by omission to my husband, and just plain skeezy. They didn't see anything wrong with it, and several of them told me that some or all of their children had been conceived that way.
My SIL got pregnant "accidentally on purpose" by "forgetting" a few of her pills.
Birth control tampering happens all. the. time.