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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]AgingAmerican
(12,958 posts)158. So all the attractively dressed women I see downtown
....are seeking sexual activity? lol
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Are you pretending that you can't tell the difference between seeing and staring?
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#10
Yeah! Those damn women should leave those things at home! Otherwise what choice do you have
Squinch
Dec 2013
#66
and you know what? most of the good looking older (out of teens) men do not do it. you know why?
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#20
wrong. it is decades of having the attention directed toward me and seeing the difference in the two
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#33
you men are the ones popping up declaring... you only want the good looking men looking. i am not
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#54
the "you men" out of the handful i am seeing now raising this point. saying "you" men to separate
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#82
then quit getting all bent out of shape when i say men. it does not mean ALL men. and when i say
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#103
you would be wrong. what i am not gonna do is work on quantifying the number i feel. if it is a lot
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#121
"what i will not do is be directed by you and others what i am allowed to post"
NoOneMan
Dec 2013
#128
I think there are situations where the line is fuzzy--and some where it is not.
tblue37
Dec 2013
#194
Have you ever dressed up to make yourself more attractive? Please be honest. I have,
grahamhgreen
Dec 2013
#24
Oy. If someone is actually dressing up to make themselves more attractive, i.e. seeking sexual
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#30
Not just for sex. But to attract a mate as well. Now, just say you see a prospective partner,
grahamhgreen
Dec 2013
#42
Most educated people know the difference between "seeing" and "noticing" and "appreciating"
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#125
of course she wanted to be ogled and leered at, why else would she leave the burka at home?
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#52
Quit dressing up to look attractive as that is women's JOB. I mean, REALLY!!!!11111
uppityperson
Dec 2013
#61
And there is a difference between a woman who is actively seeking dates,
Sheldon Cooper
Dec 2013
#163
"Women dress up to make themselves attractive, duh." Not the same as wanting a date. duh.
yellowcanine
Dec 2013
#23
Well, they don't "Dress to Kill" in order to kill somebody, now, do they?
grahamhgreen
Dec 2013
#170
Is the opposite true then? women who do not "dress up" are lacking self respect?
uppityperson
Dec 2013
#215
Oh I don't know - can't afford nice clothing - or they have a different notion of what they need
yellowcanine
Dec 2013
#220
I am one who feels no need to wear makeup, don't give a shit if you consider me "dumpy" because of t
uppityperson
Dec 2013
#221
i thought it was also. i really did. then perused the thread and see it is serious. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#40
Of course. This is just a post to push back on the generalization of men as creeps. Attraction is
grahamhgreen
Dec 2013
#205
"It is our job"? W.T.F? Having a penis means you have a "job" of asking for dates and numbers?
uppityperson
Dec 2013
#39
Correct. Welcome to our societies norms. If a man never approaches, or asks for dates or numbers,
grahamhgreen
Dec 2013
#47
Words fail me. At least ones that won't get hidden. Suffice it to say.....
uppityperson
Dec 2013
#56
And is it also a Man's Job to work and support the woman? What is the woman's Job?
uppityperson
Dec 2013
#189
OK, so you concede the point that in our society, the man is expected to approach?
grahamhgreen
Dec 2013
#191
No, I do not conced that at all but am asking if supporting women is also men's job and
uppityperson
Dec 2013
#192
Don't you have any sources that are geared older then middle school? First Yahoo answers, then this?
Squinch
Dec 2013
#230
I have had no problem doing so. It gives the impressiomn you are interested and this is what? Bad?
uppityperson
Dec 2013
#90
Is there still a fair amount of women who have an expectation that the man make the first move
penultimate
Dec 2013
#172
I reced to put on Greatest page for wimmin and mens would learn about their JOBs.
uppityperson
Dec 2013
#69
As I said in the OP:) BUT, socially awkward men are creep shamed, quite often, when
grahamhgreen
Dec 2013
#198
When the guy is eyeballing you up and down, can't keep his eyes to himself
boston bean
Dec 2013
#120
How does a jury let the observation that a woman can have "slut all over her" go?
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#136
No, that was just a garden variety misogynist troll who has been MIRTed. nt
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#147
Yeah, jury let that post stand though. MIRT has to clean up after a lot of messes
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#153
Someone posting in this thread has suggested (in at least one other thread)...
WorseBeforeBetter
Dec 2013
#131
Is someone saying guys are not supposed to ever approach women to ask them out?
penultimate
Dec 2013
#167
I don't think you will find any posts that meet the criteria of your last sentence. nt
boston bean
Dec 2013
#206
Someone sesiously alerted this. And lost 6-0. Unbelievable. Talkin gabout trying to...
Logical
Dec 2013
#171
Do you think it is rude to stare at someone when and make them uncomfortable?
hrmjustin
Dec 2013
#244
LOL. Yes, there are creeps. Labeling a male creepy for looking at a girl who has
grahamhgreen
Dec 2013
#204
But the media has indoctrinated people into believing that socially awkward/introverted is....
Taitertots
Dec 2013
#229
I do think the men shaming goes too far sometimes, but times have changed. It is not a man's job
liberal_at_heart
Dec 2013
#235