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HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
Sat Mar 24, 2012, 02:52 PM Mar 2012

My 20 something, tiny, blue eyed, blonde daughter taught in the South Bronx [View all]

She took the subway back and forth from Queens every day, and walked alone to the elementary school. The neighborhood people got to know her, by name, Miss Rachael, they called her. "Good Morning, Miss Rachael". They would ask her how "their" kids were doing in school. When the school had Meet the Teacher Night, she wouldn't leave until at 8 PM to catch the subway back home. She told me a couple of times one of the parents would invite her to dinner at their home. My daughter did not fear for her life as a young, white woman, or feel the need to carry a gun.

I myself as a young woman went everywhere around NYC, from the South Bronx, to Harlem, to Bed Sty. I NEVER experienced any trouble either. I had friends, black, white, brown, and red, from all over. We all went to our different neighborhoods, taking the subway from borough to borough, all hours of the day and night. Sometimes together. Sometimes I was all alone. I not only never carried a weapon. It would never have occurred to me to do so.

So tell me WHY if me and my white daughter could go into these minority neighborhoods without being threatened, black people cannot go into white neighborhoods without being threatened? Something is very, very wrong here. It has to work BOTH WAYS.

I know a lot of people here on DU don't agree with me on the gun issues, but tell me WHO has the problem here? It seems to be MY RACE that is more at fault from what I, and my daughter, have experienced living our lives in NYC.

Let me this say this as an educator, and my daughter would certainly agree, CHILDREN are our most precious resource. They are INNOCENTS. ALL of them; black, white, brown, yellow, and red. I don't care WHAT their race is. They are beautiful.





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The difference? you aren't self quarantined in a vehicle underpants Mar 2012 #1
Yes, it's the fault of automobiles! thesquanderer Mar 2012 #4
You have made a very good point. It is indeed the fault of automobiles. GoneOffShore Mar 2012 #14
Add in public libraries and community centers ... surrealAmerican Mar 2012 #15
Two more "Great, good places". n/t GoneOffShore Mar 2012 #22
You haven't been to my public library. Manifestor_of_Light Mar 2012 #26
She would hate our library...... mrmpa Mar 2012 #29
K/R and 1/7 of living Americans are K-12 students. NYC_SKP Mar 2012 #2
The minorities (and you)... AlbertCat Mar 2012 #3
Bingo. One of the issues that is causing most of the problems we are facing is the "poor" white jwirr Mar 2012 #17
Correct answer. nt MrScorpio Mar 2012 #25
I resent the implication of many of these posts xtraxritical Mar 2012 #27
I'm not sure that's relevant. noamnety Mar 2012 #33
Wow I love this response. TNLib Mar 2012 #38
Post removed Post removed Mar 2012 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author HockeyMom Mar 2012 #6
Thank you HockeyMom Mar 2012 #7
Tim Wise's essay... handmade34 Mar 2012 #8
Tim Wise is the MAN. I never cease to be amazed by him Number23 Mar 2012 #10
Tim Wise is one of the most appropriately-named people I've ever read. TahitiNut Mar 2012 #40
... handmade34 Mar 2012 #42
#nerdland TahitiNut Mar 2012 #43
R.E.S.P.E.C.T. HockeyMom Mar 2012 #9
I believe it is about handmade34 Mar 2012 #13
because most of us live gutless, cowardly lives. lets get down to it. pasto76 Mar 2012 #11
Well, we both know cowards can be dangerous... TahitiNut Mar 2012 #41
Beautiful story, hopefully repeated, though not always true. Zax2me Mar 2012 #12
Ahhh, the South Bronx Iwillnevergiveup Mar 2012 #16
i'm a former new yorker. DesertFlower Mar 2012 #18
Unfortunately, the answer to your question is because you don't live down here in the South... dsharp88 Mar 2012 #19
There are two wolfs in each of us, a good one and a bad one. They are both out to consume our Vincardog Mar 2012 #20
Sounds a lot like my mom taking the bus to work every day. we can do it Mar 2012 #21
I lived on the border of Canarsie, East New York, and Brownsville, RoccoR5955 Mar 2012 #23
"It has to work BOTH WAYS." unkachuck Mar 2012 #24
No "race" has "the problem"... MellowDem Mar 2012 #28
sorry, but killing black people was pretty much legal for a long time in this country noiretextatique Mar 2012 #39
I wasn't drawing an equivalence... MellowDem Mar 2012 #44
ok...sorry for prejudging you noiretextatique Mar 2012 #45
It can be a choice... MellowDem Mar 2012 #46
you are right...it doesn't help when irrational fears are fed by a constant barrage of propaganda noiretextatique Mar 2012 #47
I guess it must just be Florida. FLSurfer Mar 2012 #30
nope..it is not just florida. NYPD has an ugly history noiretextatique Mar 2012 #37
You're making generalizations not based on facts. Honeycombe8 Mar 2012 #31
what happened to Trayvon Martin is a consistent, ugly patttern noiretextatique Mar 2012 #36
Your making general assumptions 40lbsHammer Mar 2012 #32
not really noiretextatique Mar 2012 #35
i live in oakland, ca noiretextatique Mar 2012 #34
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