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pasto76

(1,589 posts)
11. because most of us live gutless, cowardly lives. lets get down to it.
Sat Mar 24, 2012, 06:00 PM
Mar 2012

my neighbors are both good men and women. However, they have never known any kind of violence. The atrocities and tragedies that occur in this world are not known to them. They are simply modern Americans.

I participated in a recuriting event a few years ago. On the way there, the NCOIC of the detail told us, "nothing is more manly than going to war." He was offering that as a recruiting point. That people look up to us, and to allow that admiration to grow in an individual and convince them that they also wanted to be just like us. The other side of that razor is an entirely different discussion.

But over the years Ive thought, he may have had a point. I am a veteran of this Iraq war. I went there, did that and have volumes of stories. But Im nothing special and if I could look back to my DU posts from 2004, I know I would see myself saying that - I just did my job. Im a dad, a husband, a son, a brother. Just like most people.

While I was squad leader back in 2005-2007, I thought I was doing a decent job. I was trying. Trying to do what I had been taught by the good NCOs I'd had before me. I wouldnt call it doubt, but the self critique is the most critical. Until I started being told by my squad that I was the best in the company. I was the most fair, the best trainer, the best leader.

Likewise, a few years ago colleagues and coworkers started telling me things like, "well you're a veteran, you are the toughest guy here". Really, I still think. Im not all that tough. But who can argue with the perception of another person.

The point? every white male out there wants to be a badass. In some way. In some manner. Sometimes I think we are on the leading edge of a societal mental illness, in that so many people seem to act on these fantasies! I mean jesus look at that show Doomsday Bunkers on Discovery now. Ive never seen a bigger group of gutless white meat talking about how they would "handle" this situation or that. Pleeeeese.

On NPR yesterday I heard about two other stand your ground law cases in FLA. One guy alleges a woman and a 14 year old boy were trying to steal his wave runner. So he shot the boy with a shotgun and killed him.
The other case was a guy chasing a burglar a full block, catching him and stabbing him to death! What the fuck!?!?!

would I ever kill someone for stealing a THING? hell no. S'why I have insurance.

This mentality is insane! and those cartoons sum up my take on this nonsense to-the-letter. People like Zimmerman are dangerous. This army sergeant would have little problems knee capping them with a lil ole .22 to keep them holed up in the house, where they can not harm my kids!
At least in Colorado you have to be inside your house to murder somebody

The difference? you aren't self quarantined in a vehicle underpants Mar 2012 #1
Yes, it's the fault of automobiles! thesquanderer Mar 2012 #4
You have made a very good point. It is indeed the fault of automobiles. GoneOffShore Mar 2012 #14
Add in public libraries and community centers ... surrealAmerican Mar 2012 #15
Two more "Great, good places". n/t GoneOffShore Mar 2012 #22
You haven't been to my public library. Manifestor_of_Light Mar 2012 #26
She would hate our library...... mrmpa Mar 2012 #29
K/R and 1/7 of living Americans are K-12 students. NYC_SKP Mar 2012 #2
The minorities (and you)... AlbertCat Mar 2012 #3
Bingo. One of the issues that is causing most of the problems we are facing is the "poor" white jwirr Mar 2012 #17
Correct answer. nt MrScorpio Mar 2012 #25
I resent the implication of many of these posts xtraxritical Mar 2012 #27
I'm not sure that's relevant. noamnety Mar 2012 #33
Wow I love this response. TNLib Mar 2012 #38
Post removed Post removed Mar 2012 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author HockeyMom Mar 2012 #6
Thank you HockeyMom Mar 2012 #7
Tim Wise's essay... handmade34 Mar 2012 #8
Tim Wise is the MAN. I never cease to be amazed by him Number23 Mar 2012 #10
Tim Wise is one of the most appropriately-named people I've ever read. TahitiNut Mar 2012 #40
... handmade34 Mar 2012 #42
#nerdland TahitiNut Mar 2012 #43
R.E.S.P.E.C.T. HockeyMom Mar 2012 #9
I believe it is about handmade34 Mar 2012 #13
because most of us live gutless, cowardly lives. lets get down to it. pasto76 Mar 2012 #11
Well, we both know cowards can be dangerous... TahitiNut Mar 2012 #41
Beautiful story, hopefully repeated, though not always true. Zax2me Mar 2012 #12
Ahhh, the South Bronx Iwillnevergiveup Mar 2012 #16
i'm a former new yorker. DesertFlower Mar 2012 #18
Unfortunately, the answer to your question is because you don't live down here in the South... dsharp88 Mar 2012 #19
There are two wolfs in each of us, a good one and a bad one. They are both out to consume our Vincardog Mar 2012 #20
Sounds a lot like my mom taking the bus to work every day. we can do it Mar 2012 #21
I lived on the border of Canarsie, East New York, and Brownsville, RoccoR5955 Mar 2012 #23
"It has to work BOTH WAYS." unkachuck Mar 2012 #24
No "race" has "the problem"... MellowDem Mar 2012 #28
sorry, but killing black people was pretty much legal for a long time in this country noiretextatique Mar 2012 #39
I wasn't drawing an equivalence... MellowDem Mar 2012 #44
ok...sorry for prejudging you noiretextatique Mar 2012 #45
It can be a choice... MellowDem Mar 2012 #46
you are right...it doesn't help when irrational fears are fed by a constant barrage of propaganda noiretextatique Mar 2012 #47
I guess it must just be Florida. FLSurfer Mar 2012 #30
nope..it is not just florida. NYPD has an ugly history noiretextatique Mar 2012 #37
You're making generalizations not based on facts. Honeycombe8 Mar 2012 #31
what happened to Trayvon Martin is a consistent, ugly patttern noiretextatique Mar 2012 #36
Your making general assumptions 40lbsHammer Mar 2012 #32
not really noiretextatique Mar 2012 #35
i live in oakland, ca noiretextatique Mar 2012 #34
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