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hfojvt

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38. I don't know that I think of him as a "hero" or "my idol"
Sat Nov 22, 2014, 03:53 PM
Nov 2014

That, of course, would be Billy.

But having listened to his album in the 1960s and 1970s and seen him on TV here and there., I do think of him as "an old friend". I don't "worship" him, but I "like" him and also feel like I "know" him.

The funny thing about "knowing" people is that you only know what you know. When I get together with my siblings over Thanksgiving I am probably not going to spend much time talking about the jars of urine that I have stored in my basement (which I only mention here because I do not actually have jars of urine in my basement. I am not actually gonna talk about here the actual things I do not talk about.)

So if instead, I got in a fatal car accident on my way to Thanksgiving dinner, they would be shocked to find THAT when going through my house. Hopefully they would not feel the need to broadcast that to the media. The media would not care anyway, but if I was famous, they would be only too happy to run stories about "the jars of urine in hfojvt's basement" in order to maybe sell a few more magazines or get people to watch their show.

Because, you know, a secret like that, or something bizarre like that, is much more worth talking about than anything positive I might have done, or tried to do. In fact, it negates anything positive that I did. Doesn't it?

Although, in this case, Cosby is not just being allegedly "odd" or doing "strange things". He is doing things where there are victims.

Then again, so do I. I take my dogs with me when I can, and some people complain about that. In fact, I recently paid a big fine for the "crime" of taking my dogs for a car ride on a hot day. And just the other night some dude was complaining because my dogs (in my car) were barking at his dogs. (And then there was the Iowan who came out of his front door to complain that my dog was peeing on his yard (again!!!). Yeah, his own dog lived in a little metal cage maybe six feet by ten feet. So I used to walk my dogs by his house every day when I walked my dogs, even though it was out of my way. I figured that it made that dog's day to see my dogs. Or at least it was a high-light in the day of that caged dog. But the dog's owner felt like he was a victim of my dog's urine, and came out his front door to yell at me and tell me so.

And that's why I started keeping it in jars in my basement.

Yep shenmue Nov 2014 #1
yup mopinko Nov 2014 #2
yep. exactly. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #3
Yup. I can't imagine.... JaneyVee Nov 2014 #4
"That's guilty until proven innocent., in the court of public opinion." unrepentant progress Nov 2014 #5
oh, I intended it. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #6
+1000 eShirl Nov 2014 #9
It's the same reason people defended Roman Polanski and Michael Jackson. Nuclear Unicorn Nov 2014 #7
yep. n/t BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #8
I agree - more about general denial ctaylors6 Nov 2014 #10
And, it must be admitted, Cosby's public persona is endearing. It's a loveable persona and Nuclear Unicorn Nov 2014 #11
A long-time lovable persona ctaylors6 Nov 2014 #14
Agreed. Thank-you for the conversation. Nuclear Unicorn Nov 2014 #15
yes, it's very hard to overcome a kind persona. predators know this, too. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #18
like the old commercial could be modified "I am not a nice person hfojvt Nov 2014 #23
! BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #25
There was a fair amount of ethnic chauvinism too AngryAmish Nov 2014 #29
at this point though hfojvt Nov 2014 #22
a couple thoughts immediately come to mind BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #26
Really? 11 of 14? hfojvt Nov 2014 #33
oh, you didn't know about the backlog of rape kits left in police storage rooms? BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #34
a backlog hfojvt Nov 2014 #41
I was replying to your comment. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #53
Rich and powerful people awoke_in_2003 Nov 2014 #44
that's a good point ctaylors6 Nov 2014 #35
Juanita Broaddrick? alp227 Nov 2014 #39
no I guess that was another one hfojvt Nov 2014 #40
Monica never accused BC of rape. nt alp227 Nov 2014 #43
You remember the OJ trial? XemaSab Nov 2014 #55
The truth will never be known yeoman6987 Nov 2014 #31
And it's not just the media. Le Taz Hot Nov 2014 #12
yep. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #13
Ah, yes, the disruptors. They're like dust. You can get rid of most of it but not all. nt valerief Nov 2014 #17
Why isn't that true though? hfojvt Nov 2014 #32
Well, this IS a patriarchy, like all those other theocratic countries. nt valerief Nov 2014 #16
yep. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #19
To avoid accusations of rape, Bill HoosierCowboy Nov 2014 #20
for predators, consent takes away the fun. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #21
Jimmy Saville got away with being a predator all his life. pink-o Nov 2014 #24
^^^ this^^^ n/t BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #27
it's hard to believe that hfojvt Nov 2014 #37
You don't think you'd remember being raped or sexually abused at the age of 8? gollygee Nov 2014 #49
a very depressed k and r for the truth. niyad Nov 2014 #28
Don't underestimate the corollary: "Fuck the lying media (that lost KingCharlemagne Nov 2014 #30
or it could be because the people praising him SoCalDem Nov 2014 #36
I don't know that I think of him as a "hero" or "my idol" hfojvt Nov 2014 #38
Exactly Blanche, you said it all. sheshe2 Nov 2014 #42
k&r... spanone Nov 2014 #45
There is some truth to that, no doubt. AverageJoe90 Nov 2014 #46
I don't think some people like "The Court of Public Opinion." BKH70041 Nov 2014 #47
I thought the court of public opinion and DU had convicted Bill Cosby. madinmaryland Nov 2014 #48
Thanks for this post, I agree Beringia Nov 2014 #50
It's even worse than believing that the accusers are lying. WhiteAndNerdy Nov 2014 #51
^ BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #52
It's especially strange when you consider that his audience is primarily rudolph the red Nov 2014 #54
The same bunch MFM008 Nov 2014 #56
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