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Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:28 PM Jun 2015

I have some tragic news to report. [View all]

Five years ago I told the story of Liam to DU and received all kinds of love and support from the community here, sadly I am going to have to ask for your support once again.

Liam passed away over the weekend at the age of five.

I can't even begin to describe the pain the family is going through right now. Liam was like a son to me, he lived with me for a year and I played a major role in helping to raise him. Liam and his mother moved out a few years ago but we have remained not just friends but family. I have continued to care for Liam, he was literally the most important person in the world to me and I can't even imagine what life is going to be like without him.

Liam lived a challenging life but he managed to stay happy through most of it despite the enormous obstacles he faced. Liam was only six weeks old when he suffered a traumatic brain injury at the hands of an abusive "father". Liam nearly died when he was an infant, but he managed to hang in there and he made a pretty miraculous recovery. His brain injury prevented him from ever learning how to walk or talk, but it did not prevent him from showing everybody how much he loved them. Liam was filled with laughter and smiles, he loved to give kisses, and while he never learned to talk he did learn to hum along with songs and he sang to us regularly.

Last year Liam's little sister Autumn was born and as she started to learn new things he would follow suit. Once she learned to stand he started to stand up on his own, Autumn was helping to teach him new things in a way no adult could ever do and we were totally thrilled with the progress he was making.

Everything seemed fine, and then Friday night he went to bed and he never woke up again the next morning.

The medical examiners have not completed their report yet so I can't say anything about the cause of death, but I am convinced that it is related to the brain injury that Liam suffered as an infant. There is a possibility that murder charges could be filed against the monster that assaulted him but we have to be able to prove that the death was related to the brain injury so charges will be dependent on how conclusive the medical examiner's report is.

No matter what happens however, the loss of Liam has had a devastating impact on Liam's mother and his new father Brandon, a person who has shown Liam an enormous amount of love ever since he came into his life. Brandon served as a Personal Care Assistant for Liam and a very large chunk of the family income came from the PCA hours that he received. Not only has the family lost a child, but they lost half their income as well and are now trying to figure out how they will be able to keep their home.

I have never asked for donations on DU before but this time I need help. If anyone can afford to donate please follow the link to the GoFundMe page I have provided below. I understand that many people can't afford a donation themselves, but if you could please share the link with anyone who might be able to help it would be very much appreciated.

Thank you all in advance for your support during this very difficult time.

http://www.gofundme.com/x5wvbc9s



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I have some tragic news to report. [View all] Bjorn Against Jun 2015 OP
Kick marym625 Jun 2015 #1
Beautiful child, RIP BeyondGeography Jun 2015 #2
Greatest Page for this important and very sad story...n/t CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2015 #3
I am so very sorry. polly7 Jun 2015 #4
This is heart-breaking...sweet dreams little Liam joeybee12 Jun 2015 #5
I'm so very sorry for all of you who loved Liam. herding cats Jun 2015 #6
Thank you so much for sharing Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #49
So sad to hear this, and sorry for this tragic loss. bluesbassman Jun 2015 #7
So very sorry vankuria Jun 2015 #8
Oh how sad for all of you question everything Jun 2015 #9
Before Abuse Occurs... rocktivity Jun 2015 #10
I am so sorry heaven05 Jun 2015 #11
So sad. What a sweet little face. calimary Jun 2015 #12
i am so sorry for your loss of this beautiful little boy etherealtruth Jun 2015 #13
I'm so sorry for your loss, Bjorn Aerows Jun 2015 #14
What a beautiful little boy. brer cat Jun 2015 #15
So sorry for your loss of this beautiful child passiveporcupine Jun 2015 #16
So sorry to hear this. Lifelong Protester Jun 2015 #17
Bjorn barbtries Jun 2015 #18
Rest in peace, precious Liam. democrank Jun 2015 #19
I'm so very sorry, Bjorn Against catbyte Jun 2015 #20
So horribly tragic MoonRiver Jun 2015 #21
Sad news. alfredo Jun 2015 #22
I'm so sorry. Blue_In_AK Jun 2015 #23
If there is a hell, there's a special place reserved for monsters who harm children. Flatulo Jun 2015 #24
k&r Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #25
Very sorry, Bjorn Against. Enthusiast Jun 2015 #26
I'm so sorry. BeanMusical Jun 2015 #27
Kick with great sadness. 840high Jun 2015 #28
I'm so very sorry. whathehell Jun 2015 #29
He stood. With his sister. elehhhhna Jun 2015 #30
I am so sorry. Just chipped in a bit. onecaliberal Jun 2015 #31
Thank you so much for your generosity, it means a great deal Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #50
Thank you so much everyone Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #32
Oy. Heartbreaking. hifiguy Jun 2015 #33
I am so sorry for your loss, Bjorn. myrna minx Jun 2015 #34
K&R for sweet baby Liam. nt UtahLib Jun 2015 #35
... shenmue Jun 2015 #36
this is so sad KT2000 Jun 2015 #37
Leave nothing to chance AngryAmish Jun 2015 #38
The medical examiner is aware of the background Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #60
I am so, so sorry AwakeAtLast Jun 2015 #39
I am so sorry for your loss. MH1 Jun 2015 #40
Wonderful that you took him into your life. Thank you for giving us a chance to help out. FailureToCommunicate Jun 2015 #41
Bjorn _ I am sorry that this beautiful kid has passed Liberal_in_LA Jun 2015 #42
Nothing like this should happen... MrMickeysMom Jun 2015 #43
I'm so sorry....... Pauldg47 Jun 2015 #44
I'm so sorry....... Pauldg47 Jun 2015 #45
I am so sorry. montana_hazeleyes Jun 2015 #46
I am so very sorry for your loss... magical thyme Jun 2015 #47
I'm so very sorry for your loss. MerryBlooms Jun 2015 #48
What a beautiful child. City Lights Jun 2015 #51
RIP Liam. blackspade Jun 2015 #52
I am so sorry. What a sweet child. raouldukelives Jun 2015 #53
Kicked. Recommended. Donated. n/t Chan790 Jun 2015 #54
Thank you so much for the donation. Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #61
I'm so sorry lunamagica Jun 2015 #55
What a beautiful child Bluzmann57 Jun 2015 #56
Ill ever understand tblue Jun 2015 #57
My sympathy to all rock Jun 2015 #58
Thank you for letting us know and help. lark Jun 2015 #59
Thank you so much. Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #62
I want to say once again how grateful I am for everyone's support Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #63
I am so very sorry. LiberalLoner Jun 2015 #64
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