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Egnever

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23. I think that is trying to understate how toxic the internet can be for anyone
Sat Jun 10, 2017, 01:55 PM
Jun 2017

Last edited Sat Jun 10, 2017, 02:50 PM - Edit history (1)

Threats of violence​ and even rape against men are not uncommon at all.

The thing about the internet you can always find someone that disagrees and often find people that disagree violently.

My problem with these sorts of posts is that it seems to set women up to be victims. The vast majority of the violence directed at anyone on the net is done by folks that would not have the courage to even voice their opinions in person forget about actually carry out their threats.

Making their rambling powerful is giving trolls way too much credit.

You can look at any famous person Twitter or Facebook or whatever male or female and find folks who lash out at them. Try Sean Hanity's Twitter some time. It is filled with folks calling for hi. To be beaten or worse.

The internet can be very ugly for anyone women and men.

The whole be a victim thing bugs me.

What we could have had for a President! G*damnit! justhanginon Jun 2017 #1
I know DesertRat Jun 2017 #3
We should have have her as our president. DK504 Jun 2017 #4
The internet is not a friendly place for anyone! (This site excepted, of course.) Towlie Jun 2017 #2
Yes, but as a guy I don't have to deal with crap like rape threats mythology Jun 2017 #10
I think that is trying to understate how toxic the internet can be for anyone Egnever Jun 2017 #23
Its worse for men. mr_liberal Jun 2017 #26
Slightly perhaps - but 3/4 abusive asses ARE men. And the abuse women get is much more centered on bettyellen Jun 2017 #27
I think men consider it banter and think its funny. mr_liberal Jun 2017 #28
Threats of rape and such are way too common, not just banter to me. bettyellen Jun 2017 #29
That and even death threats can be banter too and not meant to be taken seriously. nm mr_liberal Jun 2017 #30
I don't give a damn what the person meant. Words matter. Threats bettyellen Jun 2017 #31
Thank you for mansplainin' this. brer cat Jun 2017 #34
+1000 sheshe2 Jun 2017 #35
times like this I really wish I could rec posts. JHan Jun 2017 #36
THIS! NastyRiffraff Jun 2017 #46
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"Women take it too seriously imo" YoungDemCA Jun 2017 #47
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