Men who sexually harass or assault women vary rarely do it only once.

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3. Men who are told their friends and co-workers are harassers very rarely believe it.

I realize that many people don't like to hear things about their friends or co-workers, for fear of having to take a stand or looking like they believe a possibly irrational, hysterical or overreacting woman. However, that also makes it less likely for the next woman to report it, and also allows offenders to continue to harass and assault others. Perhaps believing women the first time they say something and then taking concrete effective action would put an end to the cycle.

Is it risky? Yes, it can be. You might lose a friend or your standing in a group of friends. Should you believe women when you hear their stories? Gosh, it's important to hear all sides, and sometimes women overreact, you know? And you know that Dave in accounting is generally a pretty good guy...you've never seen him do anything rude to women...