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In reply to the discussion: Female Cuomo staffers say they were pressured to wear makeup, heels, and dresses to please the gover [View all]Deminpenn
(15,286 posts)60. Jmho, but Cuomo is the kind of boss who
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craves power and uses it to advantage. I think we've all either seen or experienced these kind of bosses. When I worked for DoD, I would occassionally hear a comment about an senior officer's wife "wearing the rank" more than the officer did, meaning she took her attitude and power over the wives of underlings from his rank and used it. I suspect this is what happened with the women who were close staff of Cuomo. They derived their power from him and used it on lower-ranking female staff.
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Female Cuomo staffers say they were pressured to wear makeup, heels, and dresses to please the gover [View all]
Polybius
Mar 2021
OP
So he never told them but they all agreed and went along with it ? And this wasn't before the 1990s
JI7
Mar 2021
#1
And why did they go along with it ? Seems like they were all competing for his approval
JI7
Mar 2021
#4
All of this shit happened in recent years. I have a problem with them all going along with the shit
JI7
Mar 2021
#9
Thank you so much for sharing this. I hope you've opened some eyes with this post.
pnwmom
Mar 2021
#118
Many people who have potential EEOC claims don't have the means and/or the inclination
pnwmom
Mar 2021
#121
I've written materials used in law schools to teach Title VII of the Civil Rights Act.
Ms. Toad
Mar 2021
#102
With them going along with this? You are providing a textbook example in victim blaming.
pnwmom
Mar 2021
#109
I worked w/ a male shift lead who would do standing pelvic thrusts near the heads of seated guys.
moriah
Mar 2021
#88
Wrong. There are multiple reports of Cuomo telling women how he wanted them to look.
pnwmom
Mar 2021
#111
I certainly would have shut it down by telling him to fuck off and wear heels and dye his hair blond
JI7
Mar 2021
#10
Yes, I certainly wouldn't have told other women to dress certain ways because some asshole likes it
JI7
Mar 2021
#16
Thank you for your post. I feel like I'm swimming against the tide on this issue,
pnwmom
Mar 2021
#114
Yes I'm a woman and I would not encourage that type of culture. I have with similar issues
JI7
Mar 2021
#45
Surely you are aware of the concept of "power differential"? Maybe you don't intend this, but
artemisia1
Mar 2021
#92
I use two banks and one has a dress code such as dress slacks and jackets for the men and the
cstanleytech
Mar 2021
#29
Generally the boss sets the dress code for every place where they are the boss. That is not exactly
cstanleytech
Mar 2021
#30
I think Heels are unreasonable . Dress shoes are not unreasonable and there are many styles
JI7
Mar 2021
#34
"I think Heels are unreasonable." From a purely comfort level I agree with you as I have
cstanleytech
Mar 2021
#38
Maybe I missed it but I do not see in the article where it said they should ""show a little fanny.".
cstanleytech
Mar 2021
#48
Do male staffers feel they have to wear suits, ties, get haircuts, shave, have polished shoes?
Midnight Writer
Mar 2021
#22
To be fair rules regarding what to wear for the workplace are not new and yes those can include
cstanleytech
Mar 2021
#26
Dearie, dearie me. There was a dress code in the State Governor's office? How ghastly...
Hekate
Mar 2021
#32
Well true in that place of business though the whole spandex thing might well be a requirement
cstanleytech
Mar 2021
#39
Um, CORPORATE policy for a company I worked for in 2001-09 was only skirts for women
crimycarny
Mar 2021
#40
Dang, I hate to imagine how it feels to wear a dress when it gets that cold.
cstanleytech
Mar 2021
#42
"He deserves an investigation." An investigation is a must to find out if its true or if its not.
cstanleytech
Mar 2021
#49
Very Kavanaugh-esque. He had the same rules and preferences for female law clerks
Blasphemer
Mar 2021
#69