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backwoodsbob

(6,001 posts) Sat Jul 12, 2014, 12:27 PM Jul 2014

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this is wierd...wife stuff [View all]

we seperated two weeks ago...we both have our own places...I love her and she loves me but we just werent getting along.

She wants us to commute...she will spend one night a week here and me one night a week there.

Basically she wants us to be friends with benefits.

I'm not sure how I feel about this....yeah the friends with benefits is cool....but it just drags it out.

This is complicated

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this is wierd...wife stuff [View all] backwoodsbob Jul 2014 OP

i am sorry for what the two of you are going thru. i do not have any answer. seabeyond Jul 2014 #1

Just keep reminding her how nice your place is and how crappy hers is. You'll get along fine. Scuba Jul 2014 #2

Does she know about your recent Ptah Jul 2014 #3

Thanks. elleng Jul 2014 #4

Wait for the self-deletes in 3...2....1... Scuba Jul 2014 #5

she knows ..and I know she has a boyfriend backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #6

point being, I hope everyone involved gets tested. Ptah Jul 2014 #7

I hope you get tested backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #8

Where would I do that? Ptah Jul 2014 #9

here seems to be failing you backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #10

What's so special about Ed? Ptah Jul 2014 #11

Ed..Edward...and Eddie....could explain backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #12

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