Relevant for this group, I think, so

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4. Thank you, olddots;

will do so as time and events go on. PMs here are fine, and we can also share e-mail.

Last I heard from younger was 'Yay!' 15 hours after had texted her and her guy that I'd been
'approved' for the cottage and would sign lease Monday or Tuesday. Prior to that, she'd listed ways she/they would help me, moving stuff out of her father's apartment, providing me with things for my new cottage which is 40 miles closer to them than I am now, and helping throughout, so for 2 days been happy, without anxiety.

Hoping she's OK, as don't know what messages her sister had sent to her to which younger hadn't responded. Could very well be mean and selfish stuff, as hearing from her sister often drives younger into shell/depression/despair. She would much rather never hear from her sister.

Thanks