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Jamaal510

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Wed Mar 18, 2015, 01:15 AM Mar 2015

"That awkward moment when I realized my white “liberal” friends were racists" [View all]

**POSTED IN THE AA GROUP**
More: http://thegrio.com/2015/02/15/white-liberal-racists/

Has the sharing of prejudice evolved into a hip bonding ritual in 21st-century America? This writer shares his surprising experiences as a white male navigating through young white “liberal” circles — after all the black people have left the room.

“White power!” the smiling girl declared, her fist held high in a grotesque imitation of a Black Power salute. A tall, thin, stylish humanities major in a midriff-baring red T, she was a vegan, an environmentalist, an intellectual, and she was my friend.

The comical scene played out to its record-scratching, freeze-frame, “WTF?” climax around a picnic table populated by frat boys in the middle of the sunny UCLA campus. It seemed like the thousandth time a friend had suddenly unloaded a blatantly racist bombshell, although this was the wildest one yet.

As a Canadian working and studying in Los Angeles for ten years, I began to wonder why progressive young hipsters of various races were so eager to privately share their disturbing ideas about black people. The fact that these probing admissions came from a large number of my “coolest” friends, rather than the usual suspects, made it seem like a disturbing new cultural phenomenon.
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K&R And not to threadjack but this is another good read along the same lines Number23 Mar 2015 #1
It will likely never end. Behind the Aegis Mar 2015 #2
I disagree. F4lconF16 Mar 2015 #3
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You touched a nerve JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #8
And he posted as stupidly as you can imagine. marble falls Mar 2015 #10
He seems to be showing up a lot under my posts. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Mar 2015 #23
Yes, yes and yes again Number23 Mar 2015 #39
Nothing pessimistic about it heaven05 Mar 2015 #43
No, feel free to post away! Jamaal510 Mar 2015 #34
vegan, environmentalist, an intellectual and shouting WHITE POWER Skittles Mar 2015 #4
The author of the article never wrote that JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #7
Surely by now Erich Bloodaxe BSN Mar 2015 #11
Where have you been all of my life? JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #13
Where have I been most of your life? On the sidelines with all the other racially ignorant folks. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Mar 2015 #17
I love MPH JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #19
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thanks for the candor heaven05 Mar 2015 #44
I think it's often ignored by everyone. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Mar 2015 #47
The Social Sciences refer to this as ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2015 #51
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This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Mar 2015 #36
K& R, this goes right along with the nasty thread giftedgirl77 Mar 2015 #9
As a country, we pussyfoot around race issues. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Mar 2015 #12
Another excellent point JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #15
Didn't get a lot of attention Erich Bloodaxe BSN Mar 2015 #18
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I agree. lovemydog Mar 2015 #25
Because they are in your general age group . . . JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #14
thank you for writing this salin Mar 2015 #31
Click on the link in my post JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #32
lol... Now I see it Beyond The Aegis! salin Mar 2015 #35
The young uns? JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #37
Hey! I saw that thread! Behind the Aegis Mar 2015 #33
Good comments here JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #38
I went to a public university in South Carolina about 20 years ago. Behind the Aegis Mar 2015 #50
"While education is the key, one has to have a willing audience." Number23 Mar 2015 #40
Yup, I've noticed the people telling me to learn my place and not be too uppity IronLionZion Mar 2015 #16
K&R! marym625 Mar 2015 #24
Somehow I think Jamaal510 Mar 2015 #42
I don't know marym625 Mar 2015 #55
you did stand up heaven05 Mar 2015 #46
Thanks marym625 Mar 2015 #54
I question the term nevergiveup Mar 2015 #26
Post removed Post removed Mar 2015 #27
Maybe it's an age difference thing? JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #30
There is no formal checklist you have to complete before declaring yourself "liberal" jeff47 Mar 2015 #52
The article itself is racist. WDIM Mar 2015 #28
The author of the article - is a white man JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #29
Post removed Post removed Mar 2015 #41
excellent thread heaven05 Mar 2015 #45
He got a hide for standing in his truth JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #49
well as Orwell said heaven05 Mar 2015 #53
There are two types of progressives Matrosov Mar 2015 #48
+1000 heaven05 Mar 2015 #56
Defenders of the murdering racist officer in Ferguson are everywhere, here at DU and in life NoJusticeNoPeace Mar 2015 #57
How many white liberals have black friends and spend time around black people? XemaSab Mar 2015 #58
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