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OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
5. Oh, rbnyc....
Sat Dec 17, 2011, 02:29 PM
Dec 2011


I am very sorry about the tragic and traumatic loss of your friend. I read about that earlier in the week; so very, very sad.

The wisdom others have shared in this thread and in the other really feels spot on. I, too, am sorry that on top of grieving your friend, you're feeling this undue stress (more cortisol..yikes!). I do understand it, though. I feel the same way, as I am not comfortable in my own body now. But, as others have said, likely your college friends feel the same way for various reasons.

Bottom line, who you really are is all that matters, and our human body suit has nothing to do with that.

I'll be thinking of you....

Cross posting for help. [View all] rbnyc Dec 2011 OP
Sending you peace, and strength, and love Lucinda Dec 2011 #1
Thank you Lucinda... rbnyc Dec 2011 #4
First, and most importantly, please accept my condolences on the loss of your friend. Kookaburra Dec 2011 #2
I love you right now. rbnyc Dec 2011 #3
Oh, rbnyc.... OneGrassRoot Dec 2011 #5
Thanks. rbnyc Dec 2011 #12
Terribly sorry about your friend. BlueIris Dec 2011 #6
Thank you. rbnyc Dec 2011 #11
I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. Flying Dream Blues Dec 2011 #7
Thank you... rbnyc Dec 2011 #10
I'll look forward to your checking in with us. Flying Dream Blues Dec 2011 #21
Oh, rbnyc MorningGlow Dec 2011 #8
My husband... rbnyc Dec 2011 #9
Geshe Dorje would say BlueToTheBone Dec 2011 #13
thank you rbnyc Dec 2011 #15
Oh, gosh Celebration Dec 2011 #14
Thank you. rbnyc Dec 2011 #16
I am sorry to hear about your loss. davsand Dec 2011 #17
Laura, something similar happened to me Celebration Dec 2011 #18
In college... rbnyc Dec 2011 #19
I'm very sorry for your loss, rbnyc. Kind of Blue Dec 2011 #20
Dear rbnyc, I am so sorry about the death (transition) of your friend. Please don't apologize for japple Dec 2011 #22
Let me add my condolences as well Remember Me Dec 2011 #23
I second RM's advice. :hug: Mnemosyne Dec 2011 #25
I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your friend, rbnyc. Mnemosyne Dec 2011 #24
Oh sweetheart, your post made me cry. Matariki Dec 2011 #26
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