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calimary

(81,240 posts)
12. Oh man...
Fri May 4, 2018, 03:16 AM
May 2018

Last edited Fri May 4, 2018, 06:20 PM - Edit history (2)

You take me back to 2006, the night my mom died. Once we got back from the hospital where she'd already made the jump to lightspeed before I could get there, I found myself the only one in the house who was still awake. So I came here and posted about it. Just a crazy little political chat room, this is. But it seemed like a good idea and I wanted just to put it on the record.

It turned out to be such a consoling, reassuring, and comforting experience - I wasn't prepared for it. A few moments after I posted, a reply came. Then another. Then another. Then another few. Then more. And on it went, all night long, as people here weighed in, reaching out to express sympathy, and empathy, to sit up with me, to keep me company. I was BEYOND touched. The bond that built for me, with this place, that night, I will carry with me til my own end-of-the-line.

Seems to me, at a time like this, you could use a reminder that you're not alone, CaptainTruth, and that you don't mourn alone. So let this thread be that. DU will buoy you up. Many pairs of strong broad shoulders are here to offer you something supportive to lean on. As DUer Skittles put it: "someone's always here." I still can't completely wrap my brain around how much that meant to me. AND still does. Just know it's there for you, too.

I might know what you are going through. PoindexterOglethorpe May 2018 #1
Condolences and no matter what happens ,it seems there's usually some form of guilt comes with loss lunasun May 2018 #2
My deepest condolences question everything May 2018 #3
Sorry for your loss, CT yonder May 2018 #4
I am so sorry shenmue May 2018 #5
Condolences to you and your family. sinkingfeeling May 2018 #6
My heart hurts for you. And I'm sure she knows you were there in spirit if not in body. raven mad May 2018 #7
I am so sorry for your great great loss irisblue May 2018 #8
My condolences. denbot May 2018 #9
So sorry, peacebuzzard May 2018 #10
I'm so sorry radical noodle May 2018 #11
Oh man... calimary May 2018 #12
Beautifully written. Frustratedlady May 2018 #23
I am so sorry for you KT2000 May 2018 #13
Condolences benld74 May 2018 #14
I am so sorry for your loss... chillfactor May 2018 #15
I'm so very sorry. Please accept my deepest condolences. catbyte May 2018 #16
I'm so sorry Captain gristy May 2018 #17
So sorry. Vibes to you and your whole family tonight. applegrove May 2018 #18
My deepest condolences. One thing that helped me ... flor-de-jasmim May 2018 #19
i'm sorry you're going through this orleans May 2018 #20
I'm so sorry. n/t area51 May 2018 #21
So sorry for your loss. Paz. RestoreAmerica2020 May 2018 #22
So sorry thbobby May 2018 #24
Happened to me, too DFW May 2018 #25
Very sorry for your loss. Mike Rows His Boat May 2018 #26
I'm so very sorry for your loss... Hekate May 2018 #27
So sorry.... Heartstrings May 2018 #28
Oh boy - I am so terribly sorry Rhiannon12866 May 2018 #29
I am so sorry! I have regrets about my parents, too, but in time I have GreenPartyVoter May 2018 #30
So sorry MFM008 May 2018 #31
As a mom I can tell you this: just be the human being you know pnwmom May 2018 #32
Reaching out to you with white light and gentle, but solid support. Be kind to yourself. Guilded Lilly May 2018 #33
So sorry for your loss, duforsure May 2018 #34
My Condolences Sherman A1 May 2018 #35
mom's know handmade34 May 2018 #36
So very sorry snowybirdie May 2018 #37
So sorry you lost your mom. MuseRider May 2018 #38
Im so sorry for your loss. I'm sure your mom wouldn't want you to beat yourself up lunamagica May 2018 #39
Once someone passes they know everything LakeArenal May 2018 #40
Your Mom knew you loved her coeur_de_lion May 2018 #41
I'm very sorry for your loss, and offer my warmest condolences. RandomAccess May 2018 #42
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