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BainsBane

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96. Here's how I interpret the admonition to use ignore

Reply to ismnotwasm (Reply #83)

Mon Jan 21, 2013, 02:14 PM

Jan 2013

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in this particular case: "Shut the fuck up."

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What I've learned on DU [View all] BainsBane Jan 2013 OP

you use that word more than anyone I ve seen on DU. in fact I hardly ever, if ever, see msongs Jan 2013 #1

See post 7. redqueen Jan 2013 #13

I've been here almost 10 yrs and rarely see anything alittlelark Jan 2013 #2

This message was self-deleted by its author Sherman A1 Jan 2013 #3

thanks for the support BainsBane Jan 2013 #4

Plus a gazillion-bazillion. And add one more. Helen Reddy Jan 2013 #11

This message was self-deleted by its author Sherman A1 Jan 2013 #17

the absurdity BainsBane Jan 2013 #21

Here are examples that took five minutes to compile BainsBane Jan 2013 #7

This message was self-deleted by its author Phlem Jan 2013 #53

It's about the same at this point in time as I ever remember it; ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #5

witness the earlier responses in this thread BainsBane Jan 2013 #6

I just served on a jury for this thread JustAnotherGen Jan 2013 #8

What was the jury vote? redqueen Jan 2013 #16

seriously. BainsBane Jan 2013 #20

Rq JustAnotherGen Jan 2013 #23

+1 about someone being vindictive because she told the truth. Squinch Jan 2013 #32

wow BainsBane Jan 2013 #18

You betcha JustAnotherGen Jan 2013 #24

what a blast.... seabeyond Jan 2013 #25

See his dictation below - down thread JustAnotherGen Jan 2013 #28

I, for one enjoy Helen Reddy Jan 2013 #9

agree. well said. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #10

Hello seabeyond! Helen Reddy Jan 2013 #12

hello helen reddy seabeyond Jan 2013 #14

;) n/t Helen Reddy Jan 2013 #15

Thanks, Helen and Seabeyond BainsBane Jan 2013 #19

I don't know if it has gotten worse on DU specifically, MadrasT Jan 2013 #22

Taking dictation JustAnotherGen Jan 2013 #26

thanks to Giovanni and you too, JustanotherGen BainsBane Jan 2013 #27

:) redqueen Jan 2013 #29

thank you giovanni, for simply pondering seabeyond Jan 2013 #31

There are those of us who are proud as hell of being a bitch. Count me as one. I can & will TAKE patrice Jan 2013 #30

If you consider yourself a bitch, that's your business. Did you see the examples in post 7? redqueen Jan 2013 #33

I'm saying people CAN take such posters down themselves. & I approve of all of that being out in patrice Jan 2013 #37

Being taken down is precisely when they use such language BainsBane Jan 2013 #54

That's why I don't think most of it should go to jury. What happens should be seen. Embarass bad patrice Jan 2013 #57

You haven't responded to anything I've said BainsBane Jan 2013 #66

You insulted me. & You said that the fact that you work for a university makes you better than I. patrice Jan 2013 #68

OMG BainsBane Jan 2013 #70

well if you had taken that position to begin with BainsBane Jan 2013 #71

Well done! Helen Reddy Jan 2013 #84

Oh, gee. Thank you! BainsBane Jan 2013 #87

I don't think it is fine to stereotype. That's being a bad bitch, because someone is undercutting patrice Jan 2013 #39

Yeah, right. redqueen Jan 2013 #41

I didn't mean to imply that, but my point is that sanitized environments aren't good for people. patrice Jan 2013 #44

It's funny how we don't allow racists to be challenged to "learn" why using racist slurs is wrong. redqueen Jan 2013 #45

You know, because people have different ways of going about things that doesn't mean patrice Jan 2013 #47

Those examples are clear. redqueen Jan 2013 #48

I wonder if you could be more specific: "in-group use"? "taking it back"? I'm not sure what you are patrice Jan 2013 #50

Is there one and only one intolerance of misogyny? Does that intolerance have only certain patrice Jan 2013 #51

You've gone beyond that BainsBane Jan 2013 #56

I never told you not to be bothered about it. I said it is not good for the whole issue to HIDE it & patrice Jan 2013 #60

Again, you have ignored everything I have said BainsBane Jan 2013 #69

BTW, #47 was about what you called "tolerance for misogyny", not about racism. I think racism is so patrice Jan 2013 #49

There is nothing "natural" about racism and sexism BainsBane Jan 2013 #63

Yes! +1 n/t Helen Reddy Jan 2013 #85

It's possible they are martians too BainsBane Jan 2013 #55

Well, it IS the internet, a hall of mirrors of halls of mirrors & this board is kind of notorious patrice Jan 2013 #58

Oh..yay. Texasgal Jan 2013 #35

Thanks for this OP. I've seen some attitudes here that shock me. Squinch Jan 2013 #34

the rape posts were the worst BainsBane Jan 2013 #64

The only time I've been insulted here with one of those, it was done by another woman. mother earth Jan 2013 #36

I have found--and not just here but everywhere-- Laffy Kat Jan 2013 #38

i have too. that is why i never buy or let stand pointing the finger at rw men only. seabeyond Jan 2013 #40

Some "progressive" liberal men MadrasT Jan 2013 #42

LOL... evo psych... or as I prefer to call it... redqueen Jan 2013 #43

"intelligent design for atheists." exactly. perfect. thank you. i am gonna try to remember this seabeyond Jan 2013 #46

Given the gender voting patterns in this country... Deep13 Jan 2013 #52

we'd certainly be better of if that were the case BainsBane Jan 2013 #95

i supported obama, having to stand by hillary with the sexism, yet making clear i preferred obama, seabeyond Jan 2013 #98

This is what a "Bitch" is ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #59

Language doesn't work that way and you know it. That makes you a fascist, a word fascist. patrice Jan 2013 #61

Yes language does work that way. ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #62

a fascist? BainsBane Jan 2013 #65

Touched a nerve there I think ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #67

it's a lost cause BainsBane Jan 2013 #73

Post removed Post removed Jan 2013 #75

Of course I win. ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #77

AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service UnrepentantLiberal Jan 2013 #78

Whoa ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #79

speaking of doggy porn BainsBane Jan 2013 #80

LOL ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #82

now i have to read half of this OP thread that i have not seabeyond Jan 2013 #89

Clinical overview of a dog's reproductive cycle = porn?! redqueen Jan 2013 #97

Right Wing extremists "also seem to believe in a type of authoritarianism" like that in this thread patrice Jan 2013 #72

I'm not worth your time BainsBane Jan 2013 #74

"... a strong resistance to authority from what they view as “outgroups,” namely blacks and women.." redqueen Jan 2013 #76

There is an ignore function reverend_tim Jan 2013 #81

I don't ignore. ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #83

Here's how I interpret the admonition to use ignore BainsBane Jan 2013 #96

Yes ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #102

do you use it on the small penis accusation that is 90% men? or is it just the very few seabeyond Jan 2013 #90

That small penis crap really is a stupid analogy. ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #91

it is so fuckin stupid. reality. it is the only real insult one can use on a white male. that is seabeyond Jan 2013 #93

Hah! Helen Reddy Jan 2013 #99

. ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #101

You completely miss the point BainsBane Jan 2013 #94

Ah, I did not wander into a feminist group, your post or crossed over to the "Latest" category. reverend_tim Jan 2013 #100

Latest? BainsBane Jan 2013 #104

YUP reverend_tim Jan 2013 #106

At the top ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #107

This message was self-deleted by its author BainsBane Jan 2013 #108

I wonder how many males think it's okay caseymoz Jan 2013 #86

Here is a treasure trove of info BainsBane Jan 2013 #88

good point. i have discussed this when it became a mantra from men. i told them, call it out, alert seabeyond Jan 2013 #92

same as they tell us to fight for "men's equality too" if equality is what we want.... bettyellen Jan 2013 #109

There are men who take these issues seriously, redqueen Jan 2013 #110

well thanks, Red! And I agree it's all about the ego. What totally cracks me up though is the bettyellen Jan 2013 #111

LOL, yes, well women (in general) are still expected to do most of the housework redqueen Jan 2013 #112

when they ask us to do their clean up (of society) , I am completely unable to take them seriously bettyellen Jan 2013 #113

I've been here a long time. roody Jan 2013 #103

that explains why you've survived so long BainsBane Jan 2013 #105