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Stonepounder

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Tue Jul 10, 2018, 01:13 PM Jul 2018

Pub Owner's Response To A Dad Asking If His Disabled Son Can Enter Is Incredibly Heartwarming [View all]

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Pub Owner’s Response To A Dad Asking If His Disabled Son Can Enter Is Incredibly Heartwarming

A pub landlord has proven that good people do exist when she took to Facebook to send a truly heartwarming message to the family of a disabled customer.

When a father looking to go out with his family felt the need to ask permission to bring his son with disabilities to the pub, the pub’s owner was incredulous. Steph Tate, who owns The Barrel Chapeltown pub in Sheffield, England, reached out to the man saying: “Everyone is welcome in my pub”. What she wrote in response is going viral for its heartwarming message:

“Yesterday a parent came in and asked me if his wheelchair bound child was ok to be in the pub, I was confused why he felt he needed to ask. This man went on to explain that his child sometimes makes loud noises and waves his arms about, people have made comments in the past when he has taken him out. “It broke my heart that a parent felt they needed to ask if it was ok for his child to be here just like anyone else.”

“My intention is not to embarrass the parent who I spoke to yesterday, it has played on my mind all night about how this man must have felt asking me if his child would be accepted in here. It then got me thinking about how many other people must be in the same position. Whether you need us to get you extension leads to plug specialist equipment in, help moving tables/chairs for wheelchairs or any other help you may need, everyone is welcome in my pub and help will always be offered by all of my staff. If you’re sat at home with a disabled child, partner or friend and feel on edge about taking them anywhere due to fear of someone making comments please feel free to bring them here. If I find anyone making negative comments or being disrespectful they will be asked to leave not you.

“Steph”


This is the kind of place I want to live!

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Beautiful sheshe2 Jul 2018 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author redstatebluegirl Jul 2018 #2
Except it's in Sheffield, England Pacifist Patriot Jul 2018 #4
Right-o Crutchez_CuiBono Jul 2018 #26
If I'm ever in Sheffield, I know where I'm popping in for a drink! Pacifist Patriot Jul 2018 #3
My daughter has a service dog and it is about 50/50 on whether we are told we cannot bring a dog Dustlawyer Jul 2018 #5
That's horrible! geardaddy Jul 2018 #6
I'm so sorry RandomAccess Jul 2018 #10
I am so sorry this has happened to you and your daughter. I wish I could make it all better Maraya1969 Jul 2018 #23
I can't imagine d_r Jul 2018 #30
What a mensch! Girard442 Jul 2018 #7
Great to read GOOD news Scarsdale Jul 2018 #8
My husband and I have a handicapped child on the level of a one year old demigoddess Jul 2018 #9
So it is a matter of being ignorant or being informed. That makes a lot of sense. Maraya1969 Jul 2018 #24
I went to school in Seattle in the 1970's. haele Jul 2018 #33
some of these kids were too young to go to school, but they still accepted her. demigoddess Jul 2018 #35
Well, MyOwnPeace Jul 2018 #11
Sheffield has banned Donald Trump from its city limits in case you haven't heard. world wide wally Jul 2018 #22
Maybe..... MyOwnPeace Jul 2018 #25
My wife's sister and her husband hav a severely disabled daughter, and they are Trump supporters. kchamberlin25 Jul 2018 #12
And a followup from the pub owner ... CloudWatcher Jul 2018 #13
OK, now I'm crying. flibbitygiblets Jul 2018 #18
what a class act! rurallib Jul 2018 #28
bookmarked for love AllaN01Bear Jul 2018 #14
There is no "ADA" in the British Isles, or Europe, as yet, but this story shows that civil rights, FailureToCommunicate Jul 2018 #15
Isn't making loud noises and waving arms pretty common in pubs? WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2018 #16
Isn't that what pubs are for? lagomorph777 Jul 2018 #17
Our Dear Leader himself HockeyMom Jul 2018 #19
LMBO iluvtennis Jul 2018 #20
With England in the Semi-Finals today, I can guarantee... Pacifist Patriot Jul 2018 #32
Beautiful story, tx for posting this. Sadly, people's atttitudes appalachiablue Jul 2018 #21
Thats how it should be everywhere. Eko Jul 2018 #27
This post goes deep apkhgp Jul 2018 #29
great story Demovictory9 Jul 2018 #31
maybe a soccer game on the tv....known to produce some rowdy stuff in england dembotoz Jul 2018 #34
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