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Pub Owner's Response To A Dad Asking If His Disabled Son Can Enter Is Incredibly Heartwarming [View all]
https://bit.ly/2N0rAKvPub Owners Response To A Dad Asking If His Disabled Son Can Enter Is Incredibly Heartwarming
A pub landlord has proven that good people do exist when she took to Facebook to send a truly heartwarming message to the family of a disabled customer.
When a father looking to go out with his family felt the need to ask permission to bring his son with disabilities to the pub, the pubs owner was incredulous. Steph Tate, who owns The Barrel Chapeltown pub in Sheffield, England, reached out to the man saying: Everyone is welcome in my pub. What she wrote in response is going viral for its heartwarming message:
Yesterday a parent came in and asked me if his wheelchair bound child was ok to be in the pub, I was confused why he felt he needed to ask. This man went on to explain that his child sometimes makes loud noises and waves his arms about, people have made comments in the past when he has taken him out. It broke my heart that a parent felt they needed to ask if it was ok for his child to be here just like anyone else.
My intention is not to embarrass the parent who I spoke to yesterday, it has played on my mind all night about how this man must have felt asking me if his child would be accepted in here. It then got me thinking about how many other people must be in the same position. Whether you need us to get you extension leads to plug specialist equipment in, help moving tables/chairs for wheelchairs or any other help you may need, everyone is welcome in my pub and help will always be offered by all of my staff. If youre sat at home with a disabled child, partner or friend and feel on edge about taking them anywhere due to fear of someone making comments please feel free to bring them here. If I find anyone making negative comments or being disrespectful they will be asked to leave not you.
Steph
This is the kind of place I want to live!
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Pub Owner's Response To A Dad Asking If His Disabled Son Can Enter Is Incredibly Heartwarming [View all]
Stonepounder
Jul 2018
OP
My daughter has a service dog and it is about 50/50 on whether we are told we cannot bring a dog
Dustlawyer
Jul 2018
#5
I am so sorry this has happened to you and your daughter. I wish I could make it all better
Maraya1969
Jul 2018
#23
So it is a matter of being ignorant or being informed. That makes a lot of sense.
Maraya1969
Jul 2018
#24
some of these kids were too young to go to school, but they still accepted her.
demigoddess
Jul 2018
#35
Sheffield has banned Donald Trump from its city limits in case you haven't heard.
world wide wally
Jul 2018
#22
My wife's sister and her husband hav a severely disabled daughter, and they are Trump supporters.
kchamberlin25
Jul 2018
#12
There is no "ADA" in the British Isles, or Europe, as yet, but this story shows that civil rights,
FailureToCommunicate
Jul 2018
#15