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cab67

(2,993 posts)
Tue Mar 10, 2020, 05:47 PM Mar 2020

friendships and politics [View all]

I didn't lose many friendships after the 2016 election. My circle of friends doesn't include many conservatives, and the conservatives I count as friends are generally of the more rational variety who have no use for Trump.

But I seem to be losing friendships over this year's primary.

Many of my friends like and support Bernie Sanders. That's not usually a problem, but a handful have gone from Sanders supporter to Sanders cult follower. They've accused me on Facebook of blindness and stupidity for not seeing things exactly as they see them, of being a DNC operative, and of not being a True Progressive.

I'm very progressive. But I'm also a realist.

When, during an argument, I pointed out that equating Biden with Trump is like saying that because Mars and Pluto are both further from the sun than you, they're in the same orbit. The person I was arguing with said a comparison between Hitler and Francisco Franco would be more accurate. I stopped the argument at that point; there's no point holding a discussion with such a person.

I've been voting in presidential elections since 1988. I've never encountered anything like this. The whole "my candidate or no candidate" attitude strikes me as unhealthy.

Anyone else experiencing this?

Added on edit - this isn't happening to me very often, but that it's happening at all is disturbing enough.

If I were to vote in a presidential
primary today, I would vote for:
Joe Biden
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friendships and politics [View all] cab67 Mar 2020 OP
No. mountain grammy Mar 2020 #1
It's definitely not just him ... nolawarlock Mar 2020 #6
Oh the horror mountain grammy Mar 2020 #7
You must be fun at parties. tritsofme Mar 2020 #8
I've lost friends who couldn't afford their mountain grammy Mar 2020 #9
Post removed Post removed Mar 2020 #17
Pretty crass comment. Turin_C3PO Mar 2020 #30
Yeah ... nolawarlock Mar 2020 #36
Yeah, a disgusting comment RandiFan1290 Mar 2020 #41
*snort* n/t nolawarlock Mar 2020 #16
So first, you said it was just the experience of the OP ... nolawarlock Mar 2020 #15
Wow, I never knew that. /sarcasm yardwork Mar 2020 #22
I've heard a lot of stories like this PatSeg Mar 2020 #2
We need universal health care in America mountain grammy Mar 2020 #10
An affordable public option PatSeg Mar 2020 #11
We had solid majorities mountain grammy Mar 2020 #14
We had a filibuster-proof majority in the Senate for four months and ten days. betsuni Mar 2020 #19
That wasn't solid PatSeg Mar 2020 #20
President Obama got more votes than any candidate in history mountain grammy Mar 2020 #23
Unfortunately, in the beginning the ACA was not popular PatSeg Mar 2020 #25
It was basically a republican plan mountain grammy Mar 2020 #29
It is truly long past due PatSeg Mar 2020 #32
Exactly! mountain grammy Mar 2020 #33
To better days! PatSeg Mar 2020 #34
Yes, I'm very worried about my granddaughters mountain grammy Mar 2020 #35
I have five year old twin grandsons PatSeg Mar 2020 #37
You're lucky to still have youngsters mountain grammy Mar 2020 #38
I waited a long time for them PatSeg Mar 2020 #39
Ha I'll bet. mountain grammy Mar 2020 #40
I haven't, but have to avoid the subject... you are far from alone!! Thekaspervote Mar 2020 #3
The Bernie supporters in my circle Turin_C3PO Mar 2020 #4
Many of us did in past primaries. But that's what primaries do: make people commit. They have ancianita Mar 2020 #5
I avoid the topic Lulu KC Mar 2020 #12
Not this year, because I lost those folks in 2016. MH1 Mar 2020 #13
Unfriend and/or block. NYMinute Mar 2020 #18
This happened in 2016, too. yardwork Mar 2020 #21
My wife has been lying to her friends Codeine Mar 2020 #24
Every Sanders supporter that I know act like... Freedomofspeech Mar 2020 #26
trump supporters don't belong to our circle AlexSFCA Mar 2020 #27
Yes. LisaM Mar 2020 #28
Coming from a family of hardcore Trump supporters... Skid Rogue Mar 2020 #31
Like most people, I'm a moderate ... HeartachesNhangovers Mar 2020 #42
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